...that they matter very much to someone, that there are people who care about them,

...that people who love them, enjoy being with them and sharing their joy, fun and laughter.

…that they are always loved just like they are, even when their behavior is unacceptable;

…that they will be allowed to grow and develop in their own way.

…that they fit in, belong to a family or group;

…that they will have help when they face new or frightening situations.

…that they are safe from harm;

…that, even in a crisis, they will have their needs met.

…that they are given the opportunity to have self-confidence in themselves,

…that they know they have the ability to do things for themselves and by themselves.

...that they can trust the people in their lives,

…that God made them and loves them,

…that The Bible gives guidance in how to live.

…that they will have loving help in learning how to behave toward persons and things,

…that the grown-ups around them will show them, by example, how to get along with people.

…that helps them know, understand and respect the limits of what they are permitted to do;

…that helps them understand that though they may sometimes have negative feelings, they will not

be allowed to hurt themselves or others in order to express those feelings.

 

by Willa Ruth Garlow